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A man has to protect yourself without interruption. Especially it concerns the situation in a professional environment, we have to perform some tasks and responsibilities incumbent upon us. It happens that, imperceptibly to themselves, we become other people's tasks and contractors do not accept their responsibilities. We do this with a smile on his lips, in the belief that everything is in order. Unfortunately it is not.
Even if you already have matured professionally, that is, not blindly commit ourselves to all the brilliant ideas in the head and picks up the first of the chair, when it rains, the proposal to stay after hours for free, even if we cannot be sure whether or not pledged to us their snares man compulsively derogating from work - trickster. Such figures can be found virtually everywhere, prowling around the offices, editorial offices and warehouses in each forwarding company is at least one such person, and publishing of books, especially those big, you can count on dozens of these. Con mastered properly only two skills - throwing for others what he should do the same and create chaos, even in situations where the common sense cannot be. It can, doing it gracefully or not, it depends on the class of man. For us, it does not matter, because his presence is simply harmful, unfortunately, something like that in life puts the trickster is usually the person to whom you cannot get rid of. The thought that ran out of work, it may not even speech. Blaming an innocent person who works on the head takes place as the world world, always in the same way and do not know why it is always effective. Trickster is usually the guy who is most busy, patched, which is not the time and nothing is as "covered with her work," it could hardly catch his breath. If we believe in his picturesque stories of miracles, to be made that will not bankrupt and that everyone - the entire crew - were still working, then we are completely in his power. Starts, as usual, that asks us to do for him a little fabric, something really small. It will take us only a few minutes and will be over. He at that time must be doing something else, or has to leave earlier from work, because it still waiting for some business in town. Of course, this is a classic , the guy has nothing to do, and the only job they had done that day gave us. Out of courtesy we do his job and we are rewarded for it praise, or the trip to the canteen coffee. Bah! Maybe we will learn even sacrifice the head (hopefully not)! Perhaps the boss will look favorably on us from behind their gilded frames, and at least we would think they had that look favorable. Once we convince ourselves we did a good job, nothing can stand in the way to do it again, if only calling itself now ask our friend here is a con again. Then we'll do it again and again, and after a few weeks, the head will tell you that since so good to us this work goes, maybe we will pursue it steadily. Of course, we agree. After something like that everyone in the company will already know that if someone called you a nerd here, it was us. Suggestions, to do something for someone begins to multiply, and when it happens we refuse to see that in the eyes of colleagues making them appear flashes of impatience and anger. Well, I actually what's going on? One help, and we do not want to help others? Who saw it! Soon, we see that people look at us strangely and not a day that someone does not indulged in a biting account of pointing in our direction. Unfortunately we cannot get used to it and begins working atmosphere we seem unbearable. Trickster, who for several weeks he went closest to a person brings us to now only some papers, threw them on our desk and looking eloquently calls we took them. In the corridors, we see him as he whispers something to the other, and when we pass it, points the finger at us and smiled crookedly. In a word . We cannot actually do anything. Of course we can rebel and a loud voice, coupled with insults to try to break free from labels work calls. It is not effective, because we will immediately pinned the label "business calls, which is a finite. The only salvation is to make sure from the outset. When we are in the company clearly defined responsibilities, try to not go beyond them. Enthusiasm is a nice feature, but you better keep it in the evenings spent with his beloved woman or classmates in school. Not at face value the stories of each office, not the fact that the employee must demonstrate some sort of superhuman qualities, to gain recognition and trust of the boss. Wait until you tell us the head of what are his expectations, let us wait for the first evaluation, the first praise or criticism to the first. Not forward in the race, the rate is a mystery to us. This is a key issue in every company where we spend most of our lives after all. It's who you are interested in closer contacts, identify us and our position in a very long time. Since this will also depend on whether we will be able to give an effective resistance to various "not to reject the proposals, related to our work of padding. So not worth it at the very beginning to engage in the most spectacular and colorful social systems that pass before our eyes. Experience, if you have them, or intuition - if we miss him, should prompt us that they are impermanent and constructed by people whose goal is impressing his neighbor at all costs. Entry into such an arrangement must be based on the principle of pay protection money for a novice, or by us. Certainly we cannot keep up with people who are the keystones of office bohemian, and we can easily expose the absurdity of trying to do it. It is better to look for friends, behaving in a less spectacular way, but operating more efficiently and wisely. We need to find someone, because the basic principle that is the foundation of assertiveness, reads: Do not work alone. Man isolated, with no social base, raises pity or contempt, or both at once. Once you are accepted by a group of office space, we gain a solid foundation for autonomous action. Any attempt to push us to extra-curricular activities will be able to discuss with others sympathetic to us oriented employees. Even when someone tries to intimidate us and thus make us the victim, he would find it much more difficult. |